life

life is too short.. and there are multiple ways of living....which one to choose?sometimes and most of the times you have multiple ways to go,but you get confused and stay without your active interverntion;and leave every thing upto fate.tell me, just tell me ,how often do you get flawn away with the stream of happenings meaningless?be honest and just give your opinion,is it good to be so or do something actively that you find true ?